Psychosocial relationship counseling
When conversations get stuck, closeness is lost, or you keep ending up in the same place, a protected counseling space can help you see more clearly.
I support individuals, couples and people in diverse relationship forms in understanding relationship patterns, speaking more honestly and finding next steps.
Maybe this feels familiar
Sometimes the problem is not a lack of love, but a cycle that is hard to step out of alone. You try to explain, clarify, protect yourself — and still end up in the same place.
One person seeks contact, the other withdraws.
Old hurts keep coming back up.
Conversations turn difficult faster than you would like.
You do not know whether to stay, leave or change something.
Relationship counseling can help slow this cycle down: What is happening between you? What are you protecting? What are you avoiding? And what could be a next step that is more honest, clearer and at the same time more connecting?
My services
Not as a ready-made roadmap. Rather as a shared space in which it can become visible what feels coherent for you, your relationship and your life situation.
For people who want to sort out their relationship situation: ambivalence, thoughts of separation, attachment patterns, boundaries, longing, anger, shame or the question: what is actually my part in this?
Request an introductory callFor couples who want to speak with each other again without losing themselves: conflict, hurt, trust, closeness and distance, decision situations and new agreements.
Request an introductory callFor people in open, polyamorous, queer or not clearly named relationships. Individual, couple and multi-person settings are possible by arrangement.
More about relationship diversityHow I work
In counseling, we do not only look at single points of conflict, but at the dynamic underneath: What gets triggered? How do you respond? What happens in the other person? And how does the same cycle keep forming between you?
I work directly, respectfully and with a focus on relationship. Difficult things may be spoken — not in order to hurt, but to come back into contact with yourself and with each other.
More about my approachWithout shaming and without moralizing.
We look at the cycle that keeps showing up between you.
Good relationship needs contact and a clear no.
New conversations, agreements and possibilities for action.
Getting started
You can get in touch without already knowing whether you want to work with me longer-term. In the introductory call, we sort out what is going on, what frame would make sense and whether my approach fits your concern.
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You briefly describe what the issue is, or book a time directly.
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We clarify your concern, the possible frame and whether individual counseling, couples counseling or a multi-person setting would make sense.
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If it fits, we continue working together. If not, you still leave with more orientation for your next step.
A first impression
In this short video I share how I look at relationships, conflicts and counseling — and what you can expect when working with me.
Note: The embedded video is currently still a test version.
About me
I am Theophil Kroller, the founder of Beziehungsdynamiken, and I support people in relationship crises, transitions and processes of clarification. I am interested not only in what people say, but also in what happens between them.
My approach combines psychosocial counseling, systemic thinking, personal experience with different relationship cultures and a clear, respectful language.
Frequently asked questions
No. Relationship counseling can also be useful individually. Even when several people are involved, a first step can begin with one person. In the introductory call, we can clarify who it makes sense to include, and when.
Yes. I support people in monogamous, open, polyamorous, queer and not clearly named relationship constellations. What matters is not the label, but what feels coherent, safe and responsible for you or for all of you.
No. My offer is psychosocial counseling and does not replace psychotherapy or medical treatment. If it becomes clear that a different frame would be more suitable, I will address this transparently.
We clarify your concern, the possible frame, first patterns and whether further work together would make sense. You do not have to know exactly what the solution is yet.
Yes. I offer counseling both online and in person. We can clarify which setting makes sense for you or for all of you in the introductory call.
Getting to know each other
In the introductory call, we sort out together what is currently going on and what next step could make sense.